Er det tilladt, at skrive med det modsatte køn privat?

[Mayeda]

As-salamu 'alaykum

Er det haram, at skrive med det modsatte køn over msn/mobil(privat, hvis det intet formål har? Og hvad hvis det omhandler lektier osv.?

Allah Hafiz

[Idris]

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp? ... &CATE=3600

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp? ... 4&CATE=328
Vil inshaAllah blive oversat senere.

Salam,
Idris.

[Zulkarneyn]

SA

Jeg kan ligeså godt få den oversat siden jeg keder mig, håber det er ok med dig bror Idris :-)

The Prophet, may Allah bless him and give him peace, said, “The adultery of the tongue is speech.” And the ruling of intermixing in the Shafi’I school is, as stated in the Reliance of the Traveller (r32.6): It is offensive for a male to speak without need to a young woman who is not a member of his unmarriageable kin (mahram).

Ifølge denne hadith er det forbudt at tale og skrive med det modsatte køn hvis det er unødvendigt.

My advice to you is that you MSN with the opposite sex only when it is necessary. An example of this would be when working with someone on a project for school, or trying to ask a scholar of the opposite sex a fiqh question.

Her indikerer personen at han syntes vi bør skrive over msn og andre elektroniske kommunikationsmidler kun når der er brug for det. For eksempel hvis der er tale om en skole projekt eller at spørge fiqh spørgsmåle.

Having said this, don’t think that you have to be cold to the opposite sex, for Muslims that hold contempt for one another does not make for a unified ummah. You should always be cordial and make other Muslims feel comfortable, but still set limits so you don’t leave any room for fitna, attraction, or long and unnecessary chats.

Her pointerer han dog at vi ikke skal være kolde overfor hinanden, altså så længe der ikke er tale om fitna, lyst eller unødvendige chats.

Allah (C.C) ved bedst